Saturday, June 2, 2012

Not So Fun Post

If you're one of my regular readers, you will have noticed my absence this week.  I'm not sure how to say what I'm about to say and I've wondered if I should say anything at all.  You know my blog is all sunshine and rainbows, but this post isn't...it's far from it.  I feel like I can't just move on to blogging all happy things without first getting this off my chest.  Chances are I will delete this post in the very near future, but I'm still putting it out to the world for now. 

My children and I witnessed a very brutal and horrific crime recently and were in the line of danger as we were helpless to escape what was happening before us.  There I said it.  It wasn't exactly the afternoon I had planned for us.  I think I'm telling you for a couple of reasons.  One, I want it to be my testimony that while I always feel the presence of God with me, I especially felt Him there with us that day.  I don't understand why we were there or why He couldn't have stopped the crime altogether, but His understanding is greater than mine.  And two, to say be kind to someone today.  Not just the fun random acts of kindness, but the go out of your way to be kind to someone.  Let your pride go, swallow your harsh words, be a little more patient you just don't know what day, week, year, or life someone is having.  

With a lot of support from family and friends and some help from professionals, we're all doing pretty well with working through the trauma.  I'm hoping that I'll be back to posting sunshine and rainbows next week.  And while I'm saying that, I do hope you realize that my kids ARE kids and aren't always the little angels they might seem on this blog.  Like right now, one is on the floor squalling about something unintelligible.  I think it has something to do with not liking the breakfast they were served.  

Anyway, thank you for listening and I hope you have a wonderful day.  


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33 comments:

Stacey said...

Prayers for the return to sunshine and rainbows to your world. Not to worry about us out here in blogland, take care of yourself and your family.

sunnymama said...

My thoughts are with you and your family and sending much love to you xx

Lindsay said...

ohh this brought tears to my eyes. How very scary this must have been for you and the kids. I just read this to my husband and we will both praying for you and the kids!

Kelly said...

Gosh, I don't know what happened, but I am so sorry you've been struggling this week. My thoughts are with you and hopefully you'll feel sunshine and rainbows in your heart again soon!

Kelly

Phyllis said...

Oh, Kelly...I am so sorry to hear this. I am so glad that you felt comfortable enough to tell us. We understand that life it not all sunshine and rainbows and that this blog is just that you are committed to leading a life with that as the most important aspect. We also know that life will send us rain and sometimes it is torrents. I am sending all of you a virtual hug. I know it is hard to see now, but perhaps this happened for a reason that is very important. Take care and don't worry about all of your readers. We will be here waiting for you when you are ready again for us.

Angela said...

That's really scary! I'm so sorry you and your little ones had to witness something awful. Sometimes, I just don't "get" this world and some of the evil that exists. Hope you guys all feel better soon!

Gladys said...

{hugs} and prayers are being sent your way.

La Dolce Vita: The Sweet Life said...

So sorry for your family. Can't imagine. So glad you felt the Lord's prescence. Hugs to you.

pauline@lessonslearntjournal.com said...

Your witness of God's grace through this tough time is encouraging Kelly. Thank you. I hope you and your children heal quickly. Xoxo Pauline.

pauline@lessonslearntjournal.com said...

Your witness of God's grace through this tough time is encouraging Kelly. Thank you. I hope you and your children heal quickly. Xoxo Pauline.

Sara said...

Thoughts and prayers to you and your children and all involved with what you witnessed.

Miki said...

I'm so sorry you had to experience that horrible day. I am praying for you and your family. Be strong and keep your eyes on Christ! Blessings to you!

the worstest mommy said...

Life isn't always sunshine and rainbows...but kids are resilient when they feel safe. Try to focus on your kids and recovery and don't worry about blogging or how people will react to the lack of sunshine and rainbows.

Sheila said...

Thanks, Kelly, for your honesty. My prayers are with you and please give yourself and the kids time to work through this. Blogging can wait.

Sarah said...

I did notice your absence last week and thought to myself, man they must be having tons of fun...how we take that for granted sometimes. You are totally right when saying we just never know day to day what will happen. So I appreciate the reminder that this post left with me. I really hope you and your kiddos can move forward quickly.

Ticia said...

Oh no'. How scary for you. I'm so glad you felt God with you in all of this. Lots of hugs and more hugs to you

I'll be praying everyone is healed soon

Rhiannon said...

Oh Kelly, I'm so sorry. Hope you all keep improving. Sending lots of love your way. xx

Rachel@I Heart Crafty Things said...

Oh my goodness Kelly, how terrible!! I'm so sorry you and your children have had to go through this. Thoughts and prayers coming your way!! ♥♥

cube2farm said...

Praying for your family. ... hugs.

Brenda Kay said...

I am so sorry to hear your family is struggling at this time. You will be in our prayers and I know through God and your own strength, your family will flourish again soon.

Anonymous said...

I'm so sorry to hear that you and your kids had to go through something so traumatic, but what a blessing that you all are ok and that you can tell others about God's protection of your family. My prayers are with you as you seek His peace. Courtney, mom of 4

Kim @ The Educators Spin On It said...

I'm so sorry to hear. My heart and prayers are with you and your children. Please let us know if we can help in any way. Sending you wishes for sunshine and rainbows soon.

Deceptively Educational said...

Oh how awful for you and your kids! I'm so sorry to read this. I hope that not just your blog returns to sunshine and rainbows, but your life does, too. In the meantime, take whatever time you need. We'll all be here when you return. I'll be keeping you in my thoughts until then!

Amanda said...

Sending peaceful, recovering thoughts your way and am thankful that you have the support you and your family needs to make it through a trying time, let us know if we can help in any way.

Mom and Kiddo said...

I so sorry to read that your family was put through such a painful event. It sounds very scary. My thoughts are with you that the sunshine will soon return for you.

Raising a Happy Child said...

OMG, this is very scary! My thoughts are with you and your family as you heal from this trauma. I hope fun summer will help you all recover from this ordeal.

Sherri said...

I am so sorry!
I did miss you..and I was hoping it was for a better reason!
My little sisters witnessed a husband shooting his wife outside our home...it was horrible!
They had to call the police and witness what they saw..they were in junior high..and it was too much for them! I have never witnessed a serious crime...and I hope I don't have to!
I will pray for you and your kids as you recover from this moment!
Plus...yes, I am thankful God is always with us...it is amazing how he's presence is stronger when we need him most! :)
HUGS!!!!

Christy said...

Oh, how terrible. My prayers and thoughts are with all of you.

Smallgood said...

Prayers to you guys. And thanks for sharing as the message of thanksgiving and God's grace should be one to share. I'm glad y'all were kept safe.

sara d. said...

continuing to pray for you and your family!

Chelle said...

I'm so sorry. My prayers are with you all.

Chelle said...

I'm so sorry. My prayers are with you all.

Beth (www.livinglifeintentionally.blogspot.com) said...

I don't know how I missed this! I saw you made mention in todays post and so I looked it up. I am so sorry!! Hugs to you, your girls, and your family. Glad you are okay. Wish I could do more, but know I will hold up all up in prayer.
Beth =-)